Okay really it is just January 7, 2014’s TMI Tuesday post.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions were submitted by Heelsnstocking at Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman blog.
Thoughts during sex
1) What was the last fantasy you thought about while masturbating?
Great question, but it is really hard to remember this answer because it has been a while since I have masturbated alone. I could have been thinking about a certain man, but no romantic fantasy to speak of…boring…
2) Do you think about fantasies while playing with your partner?
Sure, we use the dildo and think of other men with us. Beyond that, I’m either pretty present with him, or in some kind of mind space that makes it hard to remember what I was thinking about at the time. I was never that imaginative as a kid, I played Barbies and imagined she had two kids and a husband to take care of, and had boring married sex with Ken once a week. (So yay for my life being better than that!) If I played vampires, or pirate princess capture, or anything fun like that I might be more into play scenarios now. Sure, I could be led into fantasy talk of any kind or will play dress up if requested, but I’m not one to initiate it.
3) If the sex isn’t that great do you find your mind wanders? If yes, to what?
Nope, I always have great sex, true story.
4) Have you ever thought about a previous partner while with another?
Nope, again, it has been way too long since I’ve been with past boyfriends. And any time I think of past partners my husband has shared me with is usually because he suggests I imagine them there or asks me questions about sex with them.
5) What is the biggest turn-off thought that has barged into your head at the wrong moment?
Bills, mortgage, need to finish that homework assignment.
Bonus: If you were to think of another blogger during sexual play (intercourse, masturbating, etc.) to spice things up, who would it be? (put a link to their blog so we can all go think of them)
My favorite sexy blogger man has always been Seamus The Wistful Sinner. Boys, don’t worry, there are plenty of you that creep into my mind at other times, but Seamus was my first blogger fantasy man.
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Happy TMI Tuesday!