I couldn’t let a Tuesday go by without answering TMI questions! This week’s TMI Tuesday post is about sexual expression, perfect.
Sexuality: Express Yourself
1. Can you tell when your lover is close to having an orgasm? How can you tell? What are the signs?
I can see it in his face mostly, knowing he is about to lose it is so exciting for me. His eyes flit a bit, almost a helpless look like all control has been removed, he is prisoner to his throbbing erection. His muscles tense, all down his body, with most of the energy pooled in his groin. The need for faster comes, faster isn’t fast enough, hands or mouth or thrusting, it becomes all-consuming, the end is in sight and we push there. Push. Push. One more thrust, one more word, one more squeezing stroke. Rush. Rush. There.
2. Ladies have you ever seen YOUR g-spot? Men have you actually seen the g-spot?
No I have never seen it, but I sure can feel its presence. It changes when I’m close, the ruffles of the sponge get closer together, the only way I can describe it. When I release the sponge is wrung out.
3. Which sexual position do you find most stimulating?
b. woman on top, facing man
c. doggy style
d. other – tell us about it
It really depends on the man. With my husband I adore the way his cock pushes past my g-spot when we go at it doggy style. It usually makes me orgasm fastest. With other men, maybe a bigger guy like Green, I don’t prefer doggy style, it hurts a bit, so I like missionary. Sometimes it is hard to figure out whether to look at their face or close my eyes…interesting thing there, whether I should open the doors of intimate eye contact with someone I’m fucking…besides my husband. That kind of passionate love-making doesn’t happen all the time, which I prefer because I like the novelty of kinky sexual exploration.
4. When you orgasm, are you:
b. make a little noise
c. yell out!
Can you guess what I might do? Hint: if you cover my mouth it just makes me orgasm harder, longer, and overall better. I get a bit loud, I love letting it be known I’m having a good time.
5. A lover orgasms quickly, way before you are even close to having an orgasm. Do you stop the sex once he/she has had an orgasm or do you continue sexual play so you can orgasm too?
If my lover(s) orgasm before me, well lets be honest here since it happens rarely with my hair-trigger g-spot, so let’s just say if my lover(s) orgasm before I’ve had a few orgasms, I lay back with my legs spread and rub a few more orgasms out. They can watch, join, or leave, it doesn’t matter to me much at that point (selfish). I just feel like I need several small orgasms and then a big one to be complete. If I don’t get that I have a nagging feeling that something is missing until I get that big one. It can last days, and be very very nagging.
Bonus: On average, when you masturbate how long does it take to reach orgasm?
a. Less than 3 minutes
b. 3 – 5 minutes
c. 5 – 10 minutes
d. more than 10 minutes
You probably guessed it, Ms. G is an impatient self-lover, I orgasm in less than 3 minutes most of the time. Sometimes I can take longer, and sometimes I just quit after 5-10 minutes. I probably have never tried longer than that. That is because I didn’t really start masturbating until after I had children, and well, when you have little kids free time becomes limited. And little else is more important to me than tending to their needs, mama comes last!
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