Nice, sexy, intimate questions this week for TMI Tuesday. You know, my favorite kind to answer.
What we do for sex…
1. Why do you like sexting or virtual sex (chatting, skype, etc.)?
I haven’t done much of that in a long time for the record, except for the random text to my husband (and I know I should increase the frequency to keep things hotter between us, I just forget sometimes). For a period I liked sexting because it opened my mind to more creative descriptions of the act of sex. I was flexing my creative muscles, and getting turned on by imagining it playing out; that combination was great. I also liked being told to take pictures, use toys, stand in front of the window and flash my tits (I had to fake this, I was not going to do that out the front window)…and in the process I learned more about my camera…um lets move on before I get distracted.
2. When you’re about to “get busy”…get down & dirty, you know have sex, do you like to be undressed by your lover or take off all your clothes by yourself?
I like taking my own clothes off because I’m impatient and I guess I’m some kind of control freak. I don’t know, now that I think of it, the romantic way is for us to undress each other. I’m so not a romantic, my poor hubby…
3. What is the most desperate thing you’ve done for sex?
I can’t think of a single answer for this question because I’ve never felt desperation for sex. And, I think what other people see as being desperate could be seen as normal behavior in a certain lifestyle. I obviously have fucked
men people a mere one or two hours after meeting them for drinks (after a short email exchange with my husband). And it was fun, and I don’t regret a bit of it. I wouldn’t call it desperate on either of our parts, just taking a shortcut to sex. I was simply having fun with my husband, “sport fucking” if you will.
4. Libido booster drugs for women (viagra for women) will hit the market soon. Are you interested in trying them? Will you take the new drug(s)? Why or why not? (If you are a man, would you like for your female lover to take such a drug?)
No, I wouldn’t take that. I don’t currently have a need for a libido booster, I don’t even need lube. And fuck the pharmaceutical companies! No really, if my husband asked that we try it, in a sweet and sensitive way, I would try it for him, one time.
Bonus: If it were legal in your country/community to visit a “sex box” would you?
Is there stadium seating set up for voyeurs? I don’t think our community has a problem, but if it did, I think I would most likely stay away from there. I can talk all day here about going, but in the end I think I would see it as a scary place to avoid.
Happy TMI Tuesday!