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TMI Tuesday: October 1, 2013


Nice, sexy, intimate questions this week for TMI Tuesday.  You know, my favorite kind to answer.


What we do for sex…

1. Why do you like sexting or virtual sex (chatting, skype, etc.)?

I haven’t done much of that in a long time for the record, except for the random text to my husband (and I know I should increase the frequency to keep things hotter between us, I just forget sometimes).  For a period I liked sexting because it opened my mind to more creative descriptions of the act of sex.  I was flexing my creative muscles, and getting turned on by imagining it playing out; that combination was great.  I also liked being told to take pictures, use toys, stand in front of the window and flash my tits (I had to fake this, I was not going to do that out the front window)…and in the process I learned more about my camera…um lets move on before I get distracted.

2. When you’re about to “get busy”…get down & dirty, you know have sex, do you like to be undressed by your lover or take off all your clothes by yourself?

I like taking my own clothes off because I’m impatient and I guess I’m some kind of control freak.  I don’t know, now that I think of it, the romantic way is for us to undress each other.  I’m so not a romantic, my poor hubby…

3. What is the most desperate thing you’ve done for sex?

I can’t think of a single answer for this question because I’ve never felt desperation for sex.   And, I think what other people see as being desperate could be seen as normal behavior in a certain lifestyle.  I obviously have fucked men people a mere one or two hours after meeting them for drinks (after a short email exchange with my husband).  And it was fun, and I don’t regret a bit of it.  I wouldn’t call it desperate on either of our parts, just taking a shortcut to sex.  I was simply having fun with my husband, “sport fucking” if you will.

4. Libido booster drugs for women (viagra for women) will hit the market soon. Are you interested in trying them? Will you take the new drug(s)? Why or why not? (If you are a man, would you like for your female lover to take such a drug?)

No, I wouldn’t take that.  I don’t currently have a need for a libido booster, I don’t even need lube.  And fuck the pharmaceutical companies!  No really, if my husband asked that we try it, in a sweet and sensitive way, I would try it for him, one time.

Bonus: If it were legal in your country/community to visit a “sex box” would you?

Read more about sex box…

Is there stadium seating set up for voyeurs?  I don’t think our community has a problem, but if it did, I think I would most likely stay away from there.  I can talk all day here about going, but in the end I think I would see it as a scary place to avoid.


Happy TMI Tuesday!

13 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday: October 1, 2013

  1. sport fucking, better than tennis…almost

  2. Is there stadium seating for that sport fucking?
    Great answers!

  3. hahaha!! Love the Bonus answer!
    I’ll buy a season pass when I am not working the sex box ;-p

    Happy TMI G!!!


  4. You made me smile with your camera! I learned most everything I know about internet because of my husband’s affair and then I decided to start blogging after I realized what a turn on sexting can be..there is a lot to be said for the power of the written word. 😉

    Happy Tuesday G!


    • I’m sorry for the circumstances which brought you to blog (and for me to read your posts) but I am glad to know you in this way and think you use the power of the written word extremely well!

  5. LOL I didn’t even think about the voyeur possibilities! That would be hot depending on the participants…oh hell it would just be hot!

  6. You make Tuesday the best – and sexiest – day of the week, G!

  7. “I like taking my own clothes off because I’m impatient” LOL, me too. Great answers, some of them really made me smile 🙂

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