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this explains it all



This is a fun info-graphic.  Click to enlarge.  In case you wondered I believe my husband and I fall into the “Open Relationships” category most.


EDIT: But after talking more with the hubby, I think the best term to describe us would be “monogamish

17 thoughts on “this explains it all

  1. Excellent!
    Save the image as a file and look at it with a viewer to magnify.

    The original site is
    The author gives some comment and thoughts here, plus some other links:

    • Thank you Nick! I was joking, I can see it fine. But, I will save it, anyway! 🙂
      Thank you for providing the source information! Hugs!

  2. One of my favorite info-graphics of all time. :]

    “Ok Honey, you guys go do that Kinky stuff, I don’t want to hear about it.” Probably describes my boyfriend the best.


    • It really is great! I was on reddit this morning and when I read it I knew I had to share (maybe it has been shared before, but it was the first I had seen of it). There are so many types of relationships. No right or wrong, not one label I need to pick (and stick to) for my husband and I.

  3. Similar to a post I have coming, but yours is funnier. I recognise so many of those statements!

    • I’m looking forward to your post! I was glad to find something humorous and informative, I think whoever created it totally nailed that. Now, can you please explain “Con Sex” to me?

  4. I’m printing this shit out.

  5. This is awesome! Love it!

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  7. I love this infographic. saw it for the first time a few years ago and laughed really hard… My relationships fall into many different sections of that 🙂

    • I got it from reddit, I think the poly subreddit. Does it show that I’m not following you because of the move? I’m going to click to follow again, but I noticed this the other day and tried to follow you again and it must not have worked.

      My relationship does too, I’m still drilling it into my head that labels mean nothing and its okay to fit into lots of different places. I envy you for your eclectic sexual tastes, why not give myself credit for the same? I’m just weird I guess, haha. 🙂

      • it’s totally fine to fit into many different places. not everyone does, and that’s totally fine too, but some of us just can’t possibly fit into one. So, yes, explore other parts of the sexual and relationship maps and don’t worry about labels too much 🙂

        it shows that you follow me, but the link in your sidebar links to the old site as opposed to the new non-WP site.

        • I need to figure out this theme because I can’t see any sidebar! And as soon as I do that I will link the new site…congratulations on that btw!!

          • lol, you have two sidebars, not one! 🙂 Your blogroll is on one of them. so I believe you can either unfollow and then follow, or delete the wordpress part manually in your links list.

            thanks 🙂

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