This was a TMI Tuesday post to start with, but life got in the way a few days ago and well, its just such an interesting subject I didn’t want the prompt to go to waste! If you want to check out the other TMI Tuesday posts, just click on this link:
One thing I have total and complete control of (free time provided) is how I make myself cum. I decide g-spot, clitoral, or both. Fingers, toy, vibrator, or all three?
Talking about masturbation is actually what got my husband and I back in the groove after that having-kids-sexual-hiatus-shit most of us go through the first few years after kids arrive. We had gotten down to a few times a month, once a week if lucky, and he just wasn’t feeling the passion in me. One night on the patio he asks, “do you masturbate while I’m gone?”
It is a simple question to ask your wife but brings up so many emotions. Should I be embarrassed that I don’t share that with him, ashamed? Yes, I do/did, but I wanted to sneak it because I thought he would resent that I made time to do that but didn’t make time to do him. But he was genuinely curious if I even had the urge. It was a reality check to me. Fuck, I don’t want to be seen as a prude, by my own husband!! I told him about my vibrator, and how I like to use it, and when. He got turned on by it and I got freed by it, then turned on by it. It isn’t something I needed to avoid talking about. He was happy I was healthy, not upset that I was getting pleasure without him there to receive too. So much learned. So much improvement by just embracing it.
Okay, the questions for the May 7th TMI Tuesday post were:
1. My favorite place to masturbate is ________ ?
My bed, it just has all my tools right there next to it. After that would be the bathroom/shower.
2. Have you ever masturbated in public? What were the circumstances?
I have rubbed my pussy and titties while sitting in a parked car, I just wanted to do it, no reason. I felt like it.
3. Do you like mutual masturbation? Why?
Yes! Totally. Being watched is awesome, I really get into it. I like a lot of force and friction and when I’m watching someone watch me, I push harder, sometimes my arms ache. He knows just how he likes to stroke it, and I like watching him vary his speed and intensity depending on what I’m doing. I watch his face and he watches mine. It builds and compounds.
4. When was the last time you masturbated?
Last night, baby. I had reblogged that Cum Here Often post and reading it got me really needing self-pleasure. Details to cum in a follow-up post.
5. Have you ever masturbated on camera?
If this is video chatting, yes. I might have just stroked my husband and played with my titties a little but I’m pretty sure he told me to finger myself and I did. It is really hard to remember.
6. Do you like to watch people masturbate?
Yes, I really do. I think it must be one of my kinks, I just love the idea of one pleasuring one’s own self. Everyone has their own technique and facial expression, own body jerks and jolts, and the huge payoff is the money shot. I love seeing the cum spurt out, love it.
Bonus: Have you filmed yourself masturbating? Care to share that film via a link?
I get turned on by the camera. There have been a few times I filmed myself with no intention of sharing, just the pure pleasure of watching it back alone. I have a great squirting video, great because of the sound effects; I’m not sharing, just being a tease.