Um, yes, hi, it is Tuesday. Time for another round of TMI Tuesday questions.
1) Have you ever been sexiled? (To be sexiled is to be denied the use of your room, usually dorm room, because someone is having sex there.)
No, I never shared a room with a roommate, or had a dorm room. I’ve felt like sexiling myself at times, while I was alone and had friends fucking near me, in rooms next door, or a bathroom down the hall, even the tent ten feet away.
2) Were you ever hit on (propositioned) by a someone in your circle of friends who knew you were in a relationship with someone else?
No, easy answer this never has happened to me.
3) Did you ever date someone for sex only, i.e. in hopes of a 1-night stand?
No, another easy answer, I’ve only dated to get to know someone and sex was the bonus. And I really haven’t dated much, just a couple guys before I met my husband.
4) Were you ever involved in a regrettable sexual incident where alcohol or drugs were involved?
Somewhat. I don’t feel like I would invent a time machine and go back to re-do something or avoid doing something, so I don’t feel crushing regret. I really haven’t let myself get to a point of intoxication where I would let that be the reason I choose to do something, see what I mean? I can hold my liquor and if I choose to partake in some recreational drugs (which I do) the regrettable incident most likely wouldn’t be sexual. I mean there would be sex probably but that is not the part I would likely regret. And I should probably state that I may have had a few one-night stands in college but I still maintained enough to use protection and make it home the next morning (actually send them on their way the next morning.)
5) Did you ever see a porn movie in an actual movie theater? Did you ever see porn on home movie (8mm) before the age of videotape?
No, to both. The first porn I saw was on scrambled cable at a friend’s house. You could barely make out the body parts but you got the idea, and the sounds were clear. I didn’t really explore porn again for another ten years or so.
6) Did you ever discuss the prowess of a sex partner with a friend? Did the friend also have a history with the same person?
I think we all talk a little bit, right? I don’t sit around the playground chatting about my sex life, but I would consider you friends and I tell you everything about our threesomes. I guess I keep the husband-wife sex to us, and don’t really discuss it with anyone. I loooove talking sex, especially if there is something exciting to say! My single friends love me because we can talk dating, sex, squirting, orgasms, dildos, bdsm, anything.
And part two, I don’t think I’ve ever had a friend that fucked someone I had. Not that I know of. But I’d be willing to giggle about it over coffee any day.
Bonus: Many heterosexuals ‘experiment’ in college by having their first same-sex encounter? If you are heterosexual did you have your first same-sex sexual experience in college? Did you like it? What did you do? Are you hetero-flexible or did you become bisexual?
Note: Bonus question provided by Hedone.
I kissed a girl my last year in college. Mostly because I noticed that particular group of girl- friends was really super touchy kissy with eachother. I didn’t really think of it sexually, just that was what these girls did and I wanted to be in their crowd so I complied. It gave me nothing, no warmth or dreams or regrets. It was simply a fun thing to do in a crowd. Never happened again either. Oh with her I mean. Since then I’ve kissed two women, once not long ago this girl grabbed me in a club and just tongued me. She was a good kisser and tasted amazing. I actually grabbed her butt as we left and we kissed again. This was all stimulated by some substances (again, no regret, all fun!) The other girl was part of the New Years incident that shall not be talked about.
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