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TMI Tuesday, April 16th, 2013- Sex sex and more sex


I think I like this TMI Tuesday meme/prompt business.  Most seem to be sexual in nature.  I can write about sex, sex, and more sex for sure.   I’m finding that on Monday I’m busy getting the house cleaned, laundry and dishes washed which leaves no time to post.  Then Tuesday sneaks up and I need a little help getting going.  Then I can follow up with another post Wednesday or Thursday, and finish on Friday with a “bang”.

So here we go, TMI Tuesday:

1. Have you ever considered yourself completely sexually satisfied?

Yes, very often I do.  My husband has this fingering technique that works every time, within three minutes I’m dowsing his hand.  He keeps this in his back pocket if its been a few days since we had sex.  In bed, he always makes sure he doesn’t stop until I’m begging.  I am very lucky to have such a giving lover.  Now, there are times when he does everything he can and I cum several times, but still feel a little unfulfilled.  I’m starting to think that there is a physiological component, perhaps hormonal when I track it, that determines how satisfied I feel.

2. What was the last sexy photo you took?

Friday, around 8:00am.  I had posted my Friday is Boobday post with pictures I took and edited on Thursday.  When I was called out on the date stamp (in a fun teasing way I might add) I posted a new photo of myself laying down, shirt up, tits out.  I thought it was a little sexy.

3. When was the last sexy photo you took AND sexted? What was it of and to whom was it sent?

Well, this is kind of confusing, the question might imply it was a snap and send sort of situation, but the last time I sexted technically, would be on Saturday night when I sent my Friday boob pic to my girl-friend who we were drinking with and whom I was texting different spellings of the word “cock” back and forth.  Drunken fun.  Shock factor.  She didn’t reply with a pic but gave me a high five and a titty bump (because she was sitting right next to me).  I haven’t sent her any pics before but we had been in a sex shop earlier in the week discussing nipple jewelry and the manager there was talking about “eraser nips” so I sent that pic with the caption, “I forgot to mention I have eraser nips.”

4. How is your sex-life?
a. Like a wet blanket
b. Like a warm cozy comforter
c. Like an electric blanket getting you all heated up
d. None of the above, I sleep without covers

I would say it goes back and forth between b and c.  I’m always comfortable and secure with my husband, even when he calls me his “slutty wife who likes to sneak guys into the house to fuck all day” or some other kind of fun name in bed.  But through use of toys, some kinky talk, and of course the threesomes we’ve had I would say our sex-life is usually pretty heated.

5. What’s your idea of good foreplay?

Good question.  Talking of course, fantasizing together, watching porn together.  Kissing and holding and hugging.  Fingering, orgasming, repeat.  Then to feel him slip into my wet wet tunnel… phew where am I?

Bonus: Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner? How?

Again, confusing.  Is this question asking if I can have sex with just one person the rest of my life? I think D and I agreed a while ago that we didn’t see ourselves going the rest of our lives without fucking other people.  I think I waver on that though, because it is still really hard for me to fathom sharing him with another woman.  I am willing to never fuck another man again and go back to the way it was, I don’t need anyone but him.  I think with toys, and fantasy, and research that any couple can have a long-lasting EXCITING and NOVEL sex life.  But I also think that eventually I will get to the place I need to be that will allow him to explore with other people in a controlled setting like he has done for me.  I want that for him, to feel desired by others and to be taken care of by others.

I just don’t want them continuing the relationship in any way shape or form without that controlled setting.  Meaning, if my husband meets a random girl at the club he runs every Friday night, and she shows interest in him, he is being honest in telling me which is great, but it drives me fucking crazy to know he is going to see her every Friday night without me there.  I trust him, but I don’t trust her AT ALL.  I’m getting all hyped even typing this.  I’ve read too many blogs and consider many woman friends who are sleeping with married men.  It has some affect on how I see both women and men, I’ll be honest.  Even though I know I take care of his needs, am I taking care of them all? Is that possible? No!

Wow, I need a chill pill.  See!?!? I cannot handle the thoughts even.  My stomach is turning!!

Sorry D.  Just know that I want you to be happy, but I have conditions that are getting worked through.

Verbal spew here… sheesh… I need a drink and its way too early.

15 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday, April 16th, 2013- Sex sex and more sex

  1. I think I need a drink, too!
    For the same sort of reason:-)

  2. Ooh, you have an excellent bonus answer, as well! Great job! Did you ever watch that TV show, Mind of the Married Man? I think you’d like it.

  3. There’s a quote from it about how when a man holds a woman’s heart, he holds her everything, but when a woman holds a man’s heart, his mind and sex still roam, or something similar, which is what prompted my recommendation.

  4. Ah the control factor, it is a hard reality that we can only control ourselves and no one else which is how I understand and I can see you got yourself a bit worked up a bit there – so much so I am not sure if this ‘I don’t trust her AT ALL’ woman actually exists or not but it was still a good entry, as always I enjoyed myself.

    • I’m feeling better, D knows the right things to remind me of when I tell him I have that yucky feeling again. No, I wasn’t thinking of any one person AT ALL. ;). Except for myself, as I feel guilty for entertaining thoughts that I couldn’t trust my husband. I can, I do, ugh.

  5. “gave me a high five and a titty bump” Girls who do stuff like that are so much fun. I can’t say enough about the value of playfulness. It’s very attractive. Thanks for sharing so much about yourself. I hardly ever reveal much about me.

    • I agree that the care-free playful attitude she emits is very attractive, and contagious thankfully because I always have fun with her. You are welcome, I’m glad to share these things.

  6. Glad you can talk about sex, sex, sex and more sex. 😀

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